《Catch the doll》Think about the details that are terrifying

The recently aired episode "Catching Dolls" is very popular. A topic that everyone has been paying close attention to recently is "Catching Dolls" - the details are horrifying to think about. Everyone is very eager to know more related information.Therefore, the editor today specially brings you some detailed information about - catching dolls - which is very scary to think about. I hope it can satisfy everyone's curiosity about this topic.

1. Education without hard work

Ma Chenggang, played by Shen Teng, is a rich man. He and his ex-wife have two sons. The eldest son is uneducated and has only scored 98 points in the college entrance examination. He points to the calligraphy and painting at home and writes the sentence - The boss is just sad - and asks.Why is his father not the second child?Ma Chenggang was helpless. This son was completely useless and could not inherit his family business.

He planned to train his younger son, but fortunately, his younger son was only three years old, so he could do it in time.Ma Chenggang's family background was not good when he was a child, but he now has such a successful career, so he believes that it was the difficult growing environment that tempered his tough character and quality, so he firmly believes that only suffering can temper his son's strength.Will, only by letting his youngest son grow up in an environment like his can he become a talented person and inherit his industry. He also named his youngest son Ma Jiye.As a result, their family moved from the mansion back to the dilapidated courtyard where they lived when they were children, pretending to be poor, and trying to make their children talented by raising them poor. This mentality is similar to that of many parents today who do not insist on feeding their children.

Some time ago, there was a video on the Internet of such a parent. In order to let her daughter experience the difficult experience of growing up as a child, a mother deliberately took her daughter to take the green train when she could have traveled by high-speed rail, and she bought a train.They had tickets and no seats, so they had to squeeze in the narrow aisle and get squeezed from time to time.

Yu Hua, a famous contemporary Chinese writer, once said: - Never believe that suffering is worth it. Suffering is suffering. It will not bring success and is not worth pursuing. The reason for tempering one's will is that it cannot be avoided.

There is a very heartbreaking scene in the movie. His son Ma Jiye runs to school every day. One day on the way to school, he sees a classmate riding in a luxury car. Ma Jiye is very envious. The classmate invites him to ride in the car with him. However, when he approaches cautiously, he unexpectedly tries to trick him and closes the car.The window left gracefully, and Ma Jiye looked at the car driving away with a lonely look in his eyes.Another time, Ma Jiye picked up scraps to buy shoes for his father, but was ridiculed and bullied on campus for the first time in his life.

Therefore, suffering is suffering. Suffering cannot bring success, and any suffering education will be difficult to produce positive results in the end. It will only bring pain and inferiority.

2. Guilt-based education

What’s even more suffocating about this movie is that the couple keeps telling their children how hard and difficult it is for us to raise you.There is a scene in the movie where Ma Chenggang deliberately handed over his family's savings of more than a thousand yuan to his son Ma Jiye for safekeeping in order to train his children's financial intelligence.

Ma Jiye saw that his father's shoes were torn and wanted to buy him a new pair of shoes. After all, he was a child. Ma Jiye could not resist the temptation and used the money to buy a tablet computer.After Ma Chenggang learned about it, in order to test his son's filial piety, he deliberately tore the shoes more torn. As a result, his son felt guilty for a long time.In order to buy new shoes for his father, Ma Jiye went out to pick up bottles, finally fulfilling his father's inner satisfaction of filial piety.

I saw two heart-wrenching comments on the Internet: - The love given by Asian parents is just right. It is not good enough that you can grow up happily and feel full of love, but it is not bad enough that your children will treat you cruelly. Just nowIt would be a lifetime of pain.The parent-child relationship is very strange, with love mixed with dynamic pain.It makes people very conflicted. On the one hand, they feel aggrieved by their parents' incomprehension, but on the other hand, they feel sorry for their efforts. They can neither let go nor blame them.You know very well that they are the people who love you most in the world, but you can't avoid the grievances you have suffered. We don't know who to blame, so we can only blame ourselves with guilt all the time.“

”I hate your feudal thoughts, but I feel sorry for your tired appearance. I don’t know who to blame, so I can only feel guilty and blame myself.——

3. We are all for your own good

The most common thing we have heard since childhood is that I am doing everything for your own good. In fact, this is the ultimate form of control.Regardless of whether we are from a wealthy family or an ordinary family, most of us have experienced being told by our parents since we were young that they would help you plan every step of your future in the name of "I am here for you". Are you also doing this now?Under the banner of "I am all for you", arrange and control the daily life of your children.

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