《We who are not kind enough》Jian Qingfen cheated

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When Jian Qingfen told He Ruizhi that he had slept with someone else, He Ruizhi's reaction was to pause for a moment. He was not angry. Then he raised his head and asked Jian Qingfen: Is it good?

Jian Qingfen was angry at him directly and said something quite explosive: It feels better now.

Found it?Men and women have completely different attitudes toward conjugal life.

He Ruizhi asked Jian Qingfen whether she was happy or not because he felt that he couldn't satisfy Jian Qingfen, so Jian Qingfen went out to look for her. In his opinion, Jian Qingfen cheated because she fell in love with someone else, or because of lust. Anyway, she didn't have much relationship with him.Big relationship.I don't agree either. He Ruizhi loves Jian Qingfen. If he really loved Jian Qingfen, wouldn't he have any reaction to this kind of betrayal?

Shouldn't it be shock and anger?

Why did he seem to accept it so easily?Jian Qingfen's cheating also gave him an excuse to move out of this home with legitimate reasons.

When people reach middle age, how sad is their married life?

Both people endure in marriage.

He Ruizhi is very tired every time he comes home. He only feels a little happy when he is with his son. Facing Jian Qingfen, He Ruizhi's attitude is also quite indifferent. He cannot see Jian Qingfen's emotions and even ignores Jian Qingfen's existence..It can be clearly seen from the way they both sleep. They are obviously in the same bed, but they can't get close to each other.They should have had nothing - a married life - for a long time. Even if they did, it would be a routine, and it would most likely be interrupted by the mother-in-law.

After being married to Jian Qingfen for so many years, He Ruizhi has never forgotten his ex Rebecca.

One night, Jian Qingfen suddenly sat up and told He Ruizhi that it was Rebecca who liked red leaf cakes, not me.He said that Jian Qingfen was sick, but in fact, he couldn't sleep all night because of the name Rebecca, and he also had a dream that he and Rebecca were married, and their son was still Bubu, but his wife was Rebecca.

What is implied here?

He was very satisfied with his son, but very dissatisfied with his wife. He also imagined that it would be great if he married Rebecca.

And the scene where they were in the bathroom, shouldn't it be a very interesting thing?When Jian Qingfen playfully rushed in and wanted to help He Ruizhi wash her hair, He Ruizhi's attitude towards her was extremely annoying.He said Jian Qingfen should stop making trouble. Jian Qingfen was joking, so how do you usually deal with it? He pushed her out directly and said: Jian Qingfen, you are sick!Went to see a doctor.

Then he slammed the door.

Jian Qingfen was left standing awkwardly at the door of the toilet. Her hands were still covered in foam and she was wearing a slipper on one foot but not the other.

Is this the married life of a loving couple?I couldn't see any love in their relationship. I only saw He Ruizhi's disgust and disregard for Jian Qingfen.Jian Qingfen's words - How do you usually deal with it, masturbate - shows that they have not been married for a long, long time, and they are in a sexless marriage.

Although I wrote an analysis yesterday about Jian Qingfen's internal conflict, she just loves He Ruizhi too much and has no other ideas. Because she cannot love, she feels inferior, self-pitying, and suspicious in marriage.

I wonder if you have noticed: Jian Qingfen has been working very hard to be a qualified wife.Although she was very tired of He Ma's nagging and looked unhappy, she still patiently followed He Ma's request.But what’s worrying?She worked so hard to be a competent wife and daughter-in-law, but her husband and mother-in-law didn't have a word of affirmative approval for her.

Before getting married, Jian Qingfen liked to wear bright-colored clothes, bright yellow and pink. She wore a ponytail, which was very refreshing. She loved to laugh, and her eyes were bright.But what about Jian Qingfen after marriage?She no longer smiled, there was only fatigue on her face, she could only sigh about her married life, and her eyes had long lost their light.

She used to be so confident and cheerful, but marriage has destroyed her self-confidence. She no longer shines, she is stinky and rotten.

Including her later resignation to take care of He's mother, she did not resign for her mother, but what was He Ruizhi's reaction?Just one sentence - thank you -.Thank you. These words of thanks were polite and were spoken to outsiders. Why couldn't He Ruizhi say - "Honey, have you done your hard work?"He won't, because he has never been very satisfied with marrying Jian Qingfen. He will only thank Rebecca for getting the key in time.

What did he say to Ma He: How can I be satisfied with you? I married the one you like according to your request, but do you know that it was Rebecca who saved your life?

I almost want to say dirty words!He Ruizhi is really sick.

Your wife is the one who really takes care of your mother. You can’t see it, but you feel a bunch of keys from your ex.

Is this the indifference of a man who doesn’t love someone?

Let's take a closer look at Jian Qingfen's condition: she was very tired from taking care of her mother-in-law at the beginning, but she still tried her best to do it because she wanted to be a perfect wife and she wanted to win He Ruizhi's approval.On the night when Jian Qingfen was particularly busy cleaning up her mother-in-law's urine, He Ruizhi came home and saw a room full of clothes and sheets. His eyes only showed fatigue and annoyance, without any sympathy or gratitude for Jian Qingfen.

Just because of the doctor's words - you are great -, Jian Qingfen suddenly felt full of strength.

What a lovely and innocent girl she is.

She didn't want much at all, just a word of recognition.

After being encouraged and recognized, she began to dress herself up, smiling, no longer so sad, and would exaggerate the doctor《you are handsome today》.She seemed to be alive again, with a new lease of life.

She named Dr. Zhang’s phone number — a like —.That was the little light she saw in her dark, damp and smelly marriage.

He Ruizhi was not qualified to accuse Jian Qingfen of cheating.

He is not worthy, he is incompetent, it is he who takes Jian Qingfen's good things as a matter of course, without a trace of gratitude.But why?Why should a woman pay so much to love you?She will also be desperate, and she will also want to retaliate against your indifference to her.

Even a human being would be driven crazy.

Jian Qingfen's cheating was like revenge for He Ruizhi's neglect of her.

Later, He Ruizhi and Jian Qingfen separated, and they still got along like strangers.He Ruizhi no longer has to pretend, he can tell Jian Qingfen that he doesn't want to attend their family gathering.In the past, he had to deal with it for the sake of face without breaking up. Now, he is free and too lazy to face Jian Qingfen's family.

When they were talking about whether to divorce, He Ruizhi said something - do you love him?——

Jian Qingfen was speechless, how could it be because of love?

He Ruizhi still didn't understand Jian Qingfen. He also overestimated himself. He thought Jian Qingfen cheated because she fell in love with someone else.How childish!That's why he asked, "Does it feel good?"

Although many people say that He Ruizhi still has love for Jian Qingfen, Episode 6 also said that He Ruizhi has love for Jian Qingfen through the two details of "cake" and "ring", but I don't agree, it will give people a feeling of broken glassLooking for the feeling of a diamond ring.How can there be love?As long as there is a little bit of love, his marriage with Jian Qingfen will not reach this point.

Even though Jian Qingfen cheated, we still can't hate her. We even feel that her cheating is a bit inexplicable, because He Ruizhi's cold violence towards Jian Qingfen is incomprehensible, and he naturally puts the responsibility of taking care of his mother on Jian Qingfen..Jian Qingfen endured so much in this marriage that people have to sympathize with her.

What does Jian Qingfen mean to He Ruizhi?

Filipino maid?

Do Filipino maids still get wages?What does Jian Qingfen have?

He Ruizhi's word - thank you -?

At the end of writing, I still want to say to Jian Qingfen: Sometimes don’t be too persistent in love. If you don’t get it, love yourself well. It doesn’t matter if you don’t get recognition.Also, don't compromise in marriage, it's not worth it. The person who doesn't love you will never see you, and he will only think that everything is your fault.

He Ruizhi accused Jian Qingfen, if you had Bu Bu in your heart, you wouldn't do such a thing?

Oh!He was not qualified to say such words. If he had Bu Bu in his heart, he would not treat Jian Qingfen like this.

Men are still too confident in marriage!

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