《Stay-at-home dad》also known as《stay-at-home dad: A Shanghai family's role-reversal experiment》

Content introduction

A survey shows that a higher proportion of men than women approve of their husbands becoming stay-at-home dads.Among the married people surveyed, 56“ believed that this was a reflection of responsibility for the family, and 54” believed that it would help develop good character in their children.

So, what is the effect of a full-time childcare for a father?

Shanghai Writer Gross took the first step to explore.Since having their son Ai Wen, Mao Li and her husband Xiao Chen have been in a panic as novice parents, so they made an agreement: Whoever succeeds first in the future, the other half will come back to take care of the child.

A few years later, the copyright of Mao Li's novel was sold, so she said to Xiao Chen: The time has come to fulfill her promise.

In this way, Xiao Chen officially took up his post and started working as a full-time dad.He used to live in his mother-in-law's house, and his son Aiwen lived like a little prince. As soon as he stood up, there were two personal attendants (grandpa and grandmother) helping him from head to toe. After Xiao Chen took up the job, Aiwen learned to take a bath by himself,Brush your teeth, put on your shoes, get dressed...

At the end of the year, in the brutal competition for young promotions and small promotions in Shanghai, Xiao Chen relied on his many years of workplace experience and the spirit of pursuing results to overtake in an unfavorable situation and help AiWen has gone through many encounters...

About the author

gross profit.A well-known writer and self-media person, he has been engaged in column writing for more than ten years. He once served as the chief writer of - Let's Fall in Love -.Long-term writer of 《Vista Kantianxia》《ELLEMAN》《China Youth Daily》《Tencent·Everyone.The well-known urban love novel - My First Year of Turning Thirty - was selected as the most popular novel in 2016 by “ONE·一”APP. He is also the author of - A Paper Talking 》When an unemployed woman meets a herbivorous man--and other works.The WeChat public accounts “ and Maori Lunch ” that she manages have now become one of the leading public accounts in the emotional and family fields, with great influence and are deeply loved by readers.

Excerpt from the original article

Zhu Ziqing compares himself to an underachieving father. I understand this to mean that human patience is limited. When a person keeps giving his patience to the outside world, he will inevitably become a little irritable when he returns home.I have never spanked a child, but sometimes when a child is disobedient, I can't help but push him, "What's the matter with you?"%Afterwards, I am often surprised at how cruel I am. I have already trained myself to be a civilized person, but I accidentally swallowed a bird off guard.