Tian Rulin said frankly that he plans to go out to work and make money next.But An Yan asked what the children should do.She shared Pan Shiyu's story with Tian Rulin and explained: Sometimes what parents think is not necessarily what their children need.An Yan suggested that Tian Rulin ask the children what they wanted.
Tian Rulin had a good talk with his son and daughter.The children all expressed that they no longer had their mother and did not want to lose their father again.So Tian Rulin decided to stay at home and not go out to work, and wanted to find a job nearby to take care of the children.The banquet continued as usual.Tian Rulin thanked Teacher An Yan for pointing out a clear path for him.An Yan also encouraged Tian Rulin and called on the villagers to help him.